9.9.10

Post #2: Benvenuto a Italia


During our trip to Italy, Kevin and I kept waiting for something to go wrong. It’s not that we are pessimistic people. We aren’t. But I think our past experiences of relocating have made a negative impression on us. It’s always been impossibly hot or rainy, and the truck is always a size too small. I haven’t successfully moved out without seriously contemplating leaving behind all of my possessions for the first willing taker. Since relocating within New England has been such a hassle, we prepared for even more complications for our international move.

When newscasters predicted Hurricane Earl would make landfall at the time we were scheduled to fly out of Logan, we weren’t concerned. If it was inevitable that something would go wrong, we might as well get it over with at the start of our trip. We headed the airport ready for the wrath of the God of Relocation. Charge us a fortune for our extra luggage, I dared as we proceeded to check our bags. But all 5 bags plus hockey sticks were loaded without a hitch. Our overweight bags were even generously overlooked! Alright, so hit us with an obnoxiously long delay, I thought. But the plane took off as scheduled! We were even randomly seated next to a girl I knew from Portsmouth who just so happens to be living in Torino this year. I made a connection in Italy before even leaving the runway in Boston!

In the following stages of our trip, we continued to anticipate complications. But the trip was all smooth take-offs, easy layovers, and gentle landings. In the Milan airport, there wasn’t so much as a single piece of lost luggage. A little girl even gave me 50 cents in Euros so that I could use a baggage cart! Her mother must have seen me look at the cart dispenser and walk away dismayed that, unlike the one in Boston, it did not take cash or credit. Just as I had walked back to Kevin to deliver the news that he would be carrying 300 pounds of clothes and equipment out of the airport, I felt a tap on my side. I turned to see a little girl dressed in all pink from her socks to her backpack. She smiled and handed me a gold coin before scurrying back to her mother. If first impressions meant anything, Italy was looking really good!

Upon exiting baggage claim, we were greeted enthusiastically by a little boy and his father. The little boy was holding a paper with colorful hand-drawn bubble letters spelling Regan. Although the father did not speak English, his son knew a little from school.  On the walk out of the airport, with a broken hodge podge of Italian and Spanish, I asked enough questions to learn the basics about Gabriela. Quanti anni hai? He is 12. Hai una sorella o un fratello? He has a sister who is 7. Hai un cane o un gatto? They have a yellow Labrador retriever named Attos who is also 12.  

We were certainly lucky to have been met by such a friendly and helpful duo. They had driven 2 hours from Torre Pellice just to pick us up! I smiled to myself as I watched the little boy proudly carrying Kevin’s hockey sticks., but I couldn’t silence the voice in my head that whispered, “too good to be true”. Then we saw the small hatchback that would be transporting five bags, six hockey sticks, plus the four of us. Kevin and I looked at each other knowingly. It had been too easy. This was going to be the problem. We made it to Milan, but we would not make it to Torre Pellice. Not in that car. Luckily, I am my father’s daughter. Tetris packing is in my genes. And Kevin had spent two moves as his apprentice. Within twenty minutes, everything was in the car. The father took the wheel. The little boy sat up front with our computer case on his lap. Kevin and I got in the back with a bag across our laps. When the car pulled away from the airport and towards Torre Pellice, I thought that perhaps there is no such thing as “too good to be true”.

1.9.10

Post #1: Wherever so you go...

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Nikon D60 with appropriate accessories such as carrying case, tripod, and extra memory cards; check. Brand new Italian-English Dictionary with a crisp, ready-to-be-tested binding; check. Recipe book and a stack of blank cards awaiting inscription of Italian cuisine; check. A GPS navigation device with newly uploaded maps of central Europe; check. Four seasons worth of clothing (including a pair of skinny jeans!), footwear, and cosmetics; check. All of the above packed comfortably into two bags; hmmm... So I'm not quite ready yet, but I'm getting there. 

Here I am two days away from stateside departure, and I still cannot believe that I am headed to Italy. The idea of living in Europe and absorbing another culture has always been intriguing, but it's not exactly in my biological make-up to put my career on hold and move to a foreign country because I am simply intrigued. Suppose everyone I have ever met collectively authored a book "Sarah Christine in Three Words". Now suppose, as the title implies, the book contained all combinations of words contributed by each one of these friends, family members, students, colleagues, and acquaintances to describe me.  I can bet you all of my savings (I'm a teacher... don't get too excited) that nowhere in that book would you find the word ‘spontaneous’.  I'm not saying that 'organized' and 'meticulous' (two words that would probably appear in this book) are negative attributes. Had moving to Italy never become a viable option, I would have continued living a perfectly wonderful life. A perfectly wonderful, meticulously organized life. But, moving to Italy did become an option, and I do believe that it is healthy to step outside of your comfort zone when possible. Since meeting Kevin, I have become increasingly accustomed to doing just that. 

Over the course of our relationship, despite my resistance to all-things unplanned, I found comfort and happiness in Kevin's "don't worry about what you can't control" philosophy. For six years, I've taken baby steps towards spontaneity. To celebrate our recent marriage, doesn't a giant leap in that direction seem appropriate? So, here it goes. We are moving to Italy for hockey season #7 to see where it takes us. We will be spontaneous. But I guess we can't plan to be spontaneous. That would be contradictory, wouldn't it? We will have to be spontaneously spontaneous! (You can see why I don't teach English).

Perhaps the primary objective of this introductory blog, regardless of any seemingly irrelevant digressions, is to reflect on what I hope to gain from this experience. "What will you do?" people ask with an unidentifiable emotion behind their emphasis on the word "do". Are they implying that I will be bored, or are they excited about the possibilities? Whatever the case, my response to their inquiry always involves listing off my various job titles. Wine connoisseur, gelato specialist, backpacker extraordinaire, mobster... The truth is, I don't exactly know what I hope to become over the next eight months. I have no plans or preconceptions. I can only hope that if I leave myself open to learning new things, I won't be disappointed. As Kevin and I embark on the first adventure of our married lives, I think we can use a few words by Confucius as our mantra: "Wherever so you go, go with all your heart."